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Anti-Bullying Themed Integrated Buddy System Day Program

A full-day preschool curriculum pairing buddies with kindness, inclusion, and anti-bullying themes.

Ages 2–5PreK–KEducators

Summary. Step-by-step daily schedule integrating an anti-bullying buddy system into every part of the preschool day, plus a 'Kindness Companions' curriculum, friendship rules chart, and recommended books.

Preparation

  • Pair students for the week — emphasize supporting and looking out for their buddy.
  • Define what a buddy is in the context of anti-bullying efforts.
  • Teach how to support your buddy and stand up against bullying.
  • Emphasize kindness, empathy, and inclusivity.

Daily Program Schedule

Arrival & Unpacking (5–10 min)

  • Greet students with a kindness-themed welcome.
  • Encourage buddies to help each other unpack.

Table Time (10–15 min)

  • Tabletop activities focused on friendship and inclusion.
  • Teacher takes attendance and notes positive buddy interactions.

Morning Meeting / Circle Time (10–15 min)

  • Use a daily "kindness calendar."
  • Share an anti-bullying tip of the day.
  • Read a story about friendship or standing up to bullying.

Music / Movement (5–10 min)

  • Songs with anti-bullying or friendship themes.
  • Partner activities to strengthen buddy relationships.

Journal Writing (15–22 min)

  • Write or draw about being a good friend.
  • Share positive thoughts about their buddy.

Snack Time (12 min)

  • Discuss the importance of including others.
  • Buddies sit together and engage in friendly conversation.

Center Rotations (60–72 min)

  • Reading / Library: books about kindness and inclusion.
  • Writing / Drawing: anti-bullying posters or kind notes.
  • Math / Counting: cooperative problem-solving.
  • Block / Floor Play: build a "friendship city."
  • Puppets / Imaginary Play: role-play standing up to bullying.
  • Dramatic Play: practice kind interactions.

Teacher-Directed Lesson (10–20 min)

  • Art: "Kindness Rocks" with positive messages.
  • Math: graph student acts of kindness.
  • Reading: analyze characters' feelings.
  • Science: explore how words affect others (plant-growth experiment).

Outdoor Play / Indoor Recess (15–20 min)

  • Inclusive games that promote teamwork.
  • Encourage buddies to invite others to join.

Dismissal Routines (5–10 min)

  • Buddies help each other pack up.
  • End the day with a positive affirmation or anti-bullying pledge.

Kindness Companions Curriculum Add-Ons

  • Kindness Jar — collect pom-poms for observed acts of kindness.
  • Buddy of the Day system to recognize helpful behaviors.
  • Calm Down Corner with soft toys and calming-strategy pictures.
  • Empathy mapping and compliment circles.
  • Weekly kindness challenges and class kindness quilt.

Friendship Rules Chart

  • Use kind words.
  • Share toys.
  • Take turns.
  • Use gentle hands.
  • Listen to friends.
  • Wonder — R.J. Palacio
  • The Juice Box Bully — Bob Sornson & Maria Dismondy
  • The Invisible Boy — Trudy Ludwig
  • Each Kindness — Jacqueline Woodson
  • Stick and Stone — Beth Ferry

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